Never do a wrong thing to make a friend--or to keep one.
I cannot trust a man to control others who cannot control himself.
It is well that war is so terrible, or we should grow too fond of it.
What a cruel thing war is... to fill our hearts with hatred instead of love for our neighbors.
In this enlightened age, there are few I believe, but what will acknowledge, that slavery as an institution is a moral & political evil in any country. It is useless to expatiate on its disadvantages.
While we see the course of the final abolition of human slavery is onward, & we give it the aid of our prayers & all justifiable means in our power, we must leave the progress as well as the result in his hands who sees the end; who chooses to work by slow influences; & with whom two thousand years are but as a single day.
I have fought against the people of the North because I believed they were seeking to wrest from the South its dearest rights. But I have never cherished toward them bitter or vindictive feelings, and I have never seen the day when I did not pray for them.
The war... was an unnecessary condition of affairs, and might have been avoided if forebearance and wisdom had been practiced on both sides.
Never do a wrong thing to make a friend or to keep one.
The trite saying that honesty is the best policy has met with the just criticism that honesty is not policy. The real honest man is honest from conviction of what is right, not from policy.
We should live, act, and say nothing to the injury of anyone. It is not only best as a matter of principle, but it is the path to peace and honor.
A Union that can only be maintained by swords and bayonets has no charm for me. If the Union is dissolved and government disrupted, I shall return to my native state and share the miseries of my people, and save in defense will draw my sword on none.
You must study to be frank with the world: Frankness is the child of honesty and courage.
I tremble for my country when I hear of confidence expressed in me. I know too well my weakness, that our only hope is in God.
We must expect reverses, even defeats. They are sent to teach us wisdom and prudence, to call forth greater energies, and to prevent our falling into greater disasters.
Do your duty in all things, like the old Puritan. You cannot do more; you should never wish to do less.
Get correct views of life, and learn to see the world in its true light. It will enable you to live pleasantly, to do good, and, when summoned away, to leave without regret.
I can only say that I am nothing but a poor sinner, trusting in Christ alone for salvation.
The education of a man is never completed until he dies.
I have been up to see the Congress and they do not seem to be able to do anything except to eat peanuts and chew tobacco, while my army is starving.
We failed, but in the good providence of God apparent failure often proves a blessing.
My chief concern is to try to be an humble, earnest Christian.
If a friend asks a favor, you should grant it if it is reasonable; if not, tell him plainly why you cannot: You will wrong him and wrong yourself by equivocation of any kind.
The doctrines & miracles of our Saviour have required nearly two thousand years to convert but a small part of the human race, & even among Christian nations, what gross errors still exist!
I think it better to do right, even if we suffer in so doing, than to incur the reproach of our consciences and posterity.
In all my perplexities and distresses, the Bible has never failed to give me light and strength.
We have fought this fight as long, and as well as we know how. We have been defeated. For us as a Christian people, there is now but one course to pursue. We must accept the situation.
There is a terrible war coming, and these young men who have never seen war cannot wait for it to happen, but I tell you, I wish that I owned every slave in the South, for I would free them all to avoid this war.
Say just what you mean to do on every occasion, and take it for granted you mean to do right.
The devil's name is dullness.
There are few, I believe, in this enlightened age, who will not acknowledge that slavery as an institution is a moral and political evil.
So far from engaging in a war to perpetuate slavery, I am rejoiced that Slavery is abolished. I believe it will be greatly for the interest of the South. So fully am I satisfied of this that I would have cheerfully lost all that I have lost by the war, and have suffered all that I have suffered to have this object attained.
I like whiskey. I always did, and that is why I never drink it.
Remember, we are all one country now. Dismiss from your mind all sectional feeling, and bring them up to be Americans.
It is easier to make our wishes conform to our means than to make our means conform to our wishes.
I believe it to be the duty of everyone to unite in the restoration of the country and the reestablishment of peace and harmony.
Let us pray for ourselves, that we may not lose the word “concern” out of our Christian vocabulary. Let us pray for our nation. Let us pray for those who have never known Jesus Christ and redeeming love, for moral forces everywhere, for our national leaders. Let prayer be our passion. Let prayer be our practice.
I have always observed that wherever you find the negro, everything is going down around him, and wherever you find the white man, you see everything around him improving.
With all my devotion to the Union, and the feeling of loyalty and duty of an American citizen, I have not been able to make up my mind to raise my hand against my relative, my children, my home. I have, therefore, resigned my commission in the Army...
My experiences of men has neither disposed me to think worse of them nor be indisposed to serve them: nor, in spite of failures which I lament, of errors which I now see and acknowledge, or the present aspect of affairs, do I despair of the future. The truth is this: The march of Providence is so slow and our desires so impatient; the work of progress so immense and our means of aiding it so feeble; the life of humanity is so long, that of the individual so brief, that we often see only the ebb of the advancing wave and are thus discouraged. It is history that teaches us to hope.
The enemy never sees the backs of my Texans!
All that the South has ever desired was that the Union, as established by our forefathers, should be preserved, and that the government as originally organized should be administered in purity and truth.
Abandon your animosities and make your sons Americans!
A true man of honor feels humbled himself when he cannot help humbling others.
I am of the opinion that all who can should vote for the most intelligent, honest, and conscientious men eligible to office, irrespective of former party opinions, who will endeavour to make the new constitutions and the laws passed under them as beneficial as possible to the true interests, prosperity, and liberty of all classes and conditions of the people.
They do not know what they say. If it came to a conflict of arms, the war will last at least four years. Northern politicians will not appreciate the determination and pluck of the South, and Southern politicians do not appreciate the numbers, resources, and patient perseverance of the North. Both sides forget that we are all Americans. I foresee that our country will pass through a terrible ordeal, a necessary expiation, perhaps, for our national sins.
Read history, works of truth, not novels and romances
Obedience to lawful authority is the foundation of manly character.
It's the loneliest feeling in the world-to find yourself standing up when everybody else is sitting down. To have everybody look at you and say, 'What's the matter with him?' I know. I know what it feels like. Walking down an empty street, listening to the sound of your own footsteps. Shutters closed, blinds drawn, doors locked against you. And you aren't sure whether you're walking toward something, or if you're just walking away.
What a cruel thing is war: to separate and destroy families and friends, and mar the purest joys and happiness God has granted us in this world; to fill our hearts with hatred instead of love for our neighbors, and to devastate the fair face of this beautiful world.
My trust is in the mercy and wisdom of a kind Providence, who ordereth all things for our good.
There is a true glory and a true honor: the glory of duty done--the honor of the integrity of principle.
Shake off those gloomy feelings. Drive them away. Fix your mind and pleasures upon what is before you.All is bright if you will think it so. All is happy if you will make it so. Do not dream. It is too ideal, too imaginary. Dreaming by day, I mean. Live in the world you inhabit. Look upon things as they are. Take them as you find them. Make the best of them. Turn them to your advantage.
All I ever wanted was a Virginia farm, no end of cream and fresh butter and fried chicken - not one fried chicken, or two, but unlimited fried chicken.
The gentleman does not needlessly and unnecessarily remind an offender of a wrong he may have committed against him. He cannot only forgive, he can forget; and he strives for that nobleness of self and mildness of character which impart sufficient strength to let the past be but the past. A true man of honor feels humbled himself when he cannot help humbling others.
The time is not come for impartial history. If the truth were told just now, it would not be credited.
True patriotism sometimes requires of men to act exactly contrary, at one period, to that which it does at another, and the motive which impels them the desire to do right is precisely the same.
The consolidation of the states into one vast empire, sure to be aggressive abroad and despotic at home, will be the certain precursor of ruin which has overwhelmed all that preceded it.
Go home all you boys who fought with me and help build up the shattered fortunes of our old state
Sir, if you ever presume again to speak disrespectfully of General Grant in my presence, either you or I will sever his connection with this university.
All motion is relative. Perhaps it is you who have moved away-by standing still
Postal officials say that before Christmas they receive tons of letters written to Santa Claus, but after Christmas how few letters of thanks are sent to him! From childhood onward, human beings seem to be characterized by thanklessness.
Cadets can neither be treated as schoolboys or soldiers.
Alabama soldiers, all I ask of you is to keep up with the Texans!
We have only one rule here - to act like a gentleman at all times.
We must forgive our enemies. I can truly say that not a day has passed since the war began that I have not prayed for them.
I was too weak to defend, so I attacked
Act with a determination not to be turned aside by thoughts of the past and fears of the future.
We poor sinners need to come back from our wanderings to seek pardon through the all-sufficient merits of our Redeemer. And we need to pray earnestly for the power of the Holy Spirit to give us a precious revival in our hearts and among the unconverted.
We must look to the rising generation for the restoration of the country.
You cannot barter manhood for peace.
There are things in the Old Book which I may not be able to explain, but I fully accept it as the infallible Word of God, and receive its teachings as inspired by the Holy Spirit.
The dominant party cannot reign forever, and truth and justice will prevail at last.
No day should be lived unless it was begun with a prayer of thankfulness and an intercession for guidance.
So far from engaging in a war to perpetuate slavery,I am rejoiced that slavery is abolished.
A land without memories is a people without liberty.
If you have any fault to find with anyone, tell him, not others, of what you complain; there is no more dangerous experiment than that of undertaking to be one thing before a man's face and another behind his back.
I am A man, not a sponge! If god wished a sponge to think, A SPONGE WOULD THINK!
It is well that war is so terrible, or we would grow too fond of it.
What a glorious world Almighty God has given us. How thankless and ungrateful we are, and how we labor to mar his gifts.
 is never completed until he dies. )
The education of a man ( or woman ) is never completed until he dies.
Everyone should do all in his power to collect and disseminate the truth, in the hope that it may find a place in history and descend to posterity. History is not the relation of campaigns and battles and generals or other individuals, but that which shows the principles for which the South contended and which justified her struggle for those principles.
Respect is based on Friendship,and friendship is based on love and love is so accidental isn't it ?
You must be careful how you walk and where you go, for there are those following you who will set their feet where yours are set.
There is scarcely anything that is right that we cannot hope to accomplish by labor and perseverance. But the first must be earnest and the second unremitting.
Marry...into a family that will enable your children to feel proud of both sides of the house.
Wisdom is nothing more than healed pain.
What a beautiful world God, in His loving kindness to His creatures, has given us! What a shame that men endowed with reason and knowledge of right should mar His gifts....
I consider the proper education of our youths one of the most important objects now to be attained and one from which the greatest benefits may be expected.
Duty, then is the sublimest word in our language. Do your duty in all things. You cannot do more; you should never wish to do less.
We have but one rule here, and that is that every student must be a gentleman.
I did only what my duty demanded. I could have taken no other course without dishonor.
A nation which does not remember what it was yesterday does not know where it is today.
It is good that war is so terrible, or we should become too fond of it.
I have thought from the time of the cessation of the hostilities, that silence and patience on the part of the South was the true course; and I think so still. Controversy of all kinds will, in my opinion, only serve to continue excitement and passion, and will prevent the public mind from the acknowledgement and acceptance of the truth.
Life Insurance trusts I consider sacred. To hazard the property of the dead & to lose the scanty earnings of fathers & husbands, who have toiled & saved that they may leave something to their families deprived of their care & the support of their labour, is to my mind the worst of crimes.
Why, it appears that we appointed all of our worst generals to command the armies and we appointed all of our best generals to edit the newspapers. I mean, I found by reading a newspaper that these editor generals saw all of the defects plainly from the start but didn't tell me until it was too late. I'm willing to yield my place to these best generals and I'll do my best for the cause by editing a newspaper.
I can anticipate no greater calamity for the country than the dissolution of the Union. It would be an accumulation of all the evils we complain of, and I am willing to sacrifice everything but honor for its preservation.
